What is a foundational step when working with bullied children in individual counseling?

• A. Establish trust.
• B. Isolate the child from peers.
• C. Publicly shame the bully.
• D. Ignore the problem.

Answer: (A)

Establishing trust is the essential first step when working with bullied children in individual counseling. When a child feels safe, listened to, and respected, they are more willing to share what happened, how it affected them, and what they need. This trust lays the foundation for accurate understanding of the situation, helps build rapport, and allows the counselor to collaborate with the child on coping strategies, safety planning, and identifying supportive adults at school or home. Without trust, the child may withhold information, feel misunderstood, or resist engaging in helpful strategies.

Isolating the child from peers removes a critical source of social support and can worsen feelings of isolation and vulnerability. Publicly shaming the bully shifts focus away from the child’s safety and well-being and can intensify conflict rather than resolve it. Ignoring the problem leaves the child without acknowledgment or resources to cope, sustaining harm and eroding trust in the counseling process.